Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Oh so sad news

I just got off the phone with my case coordinator and she said she received an e-mail from the IF's today saying that they are 95% positive they will reduce to one fetus. I knew that this was going to happen but to hear it makes so much more sad. I (think I) have mentally prepared myself for this but I know when the time comes it is going to hit me like a ton of bricks. I just can't wait for all of this to be over with and to just be able to go on with a (hopefully) normal pregnancy. That's all I can say because I can't say what my feelings are towards my IP's.

2 comments:

Jenifer said...

Just curious... did you know they had these feelings going in? Did you agree to it then and find out you feel differently now? Has it impacted your relationship with your IP's?

I am curious because I am not pregnant yet but I know my IP's would reduce to at least twins if multiples occurred. I have agreed to this, and I think I have done enough soul searching about it.... but I am wondering how I would feel if put in your position...

Maranda said...

That's tough...my IP's, my partner, and myself agreed that we'd never reduce so we agreed to only transfer 2 embryos (and both stuck too)...I wish you luck in processing your feelings...I can't imagine how tough it is...

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